So, this is not about me but actually my bf ( and BM ) . I just wanted to gather some opinions to show her.
One of my Bm's was also asked by her FSIL to be MOH at thier wedding in December of next year. ( Bride has no sisters or close girl friends so she asked my friend , even though they are not too close ). My friend said yes, even though she's not too crazy about the girl, she still wanted to be a part of her brothers wedding and be involved. Also, the bride called her the day they got engaged to ask my friend, which , as we all know, is not the best idea.
Fast forward to a few months ago, my friend called the bride numerous times to ask if she needed help with anything ( planning, bridal shows, dress shopping, pre-wedding party stuff, etc..) Bride kept saying she didn't need help , and had not decided on anything yet. So my friend left it at that, and decided if the bride needed help, she would ask. Yesterday, she gets a TEXT MESSAGE from the bride saying that they decided not to have a bridal party at all ( which is weird because it was only MOH and Bestman). My friend was relieved because as I said, she wasn't too crazy about the idea to begin with , but was committed to MOH, so she wouldn't dare back out.
Today on facebook, bride posts a comment that says " Can someone tell me the exact duties of a MOH, because obviously no one is clear on it". My friend assumed this was a personal stab at her, like the bride was saying she did not help or was maybe too pushy. The bride has not given her a reason for deleting the BP, only that she did not feel like giving gifts. My friend is very upset, and also, her mom (and grooms mom) called the bride to ask what the deal was , and she started screaming at her that it was her wedding and thats what she wanted. Any ideas???