Help. I have 3 good friends and it's always the four of us, espeically for every birthday we always share the gift. One of them is my bf, and has been for 12 years. The others came in the picture about 6 years ago. We've had our times where we've been closer than others. Long story short, I don't know how to tell the other 2 that they aren't in the wedding and that my real bf is. I may also ask my long time bf who lives in the states but I think they would understand that. I think they would understand deep down, I just don't know how to bring up and how to say it?? Time is passing and I feel bad.