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How many BMs is sufficiant?

How many BMs is the limit in a wedding party
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Re: How many BMs is sufficiant?

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    There is no limit.  You should ask the number of best friends you have.  

    Think fast.  It's 3 am and you need to hide a body.  Who do you call?  There's your WP.  
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_wedding-party_many-bms-sufficiant?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:37Discussion:c608eb95-2910-446f-aa96-e2799a028057Post:abfcd085-f010-46ae-b6a7-f2571a79a258">Re: How many BMs is sufficiant?</a>:
    [QUOTE]There is no limit.  You should ask the number of best friends you have.   Think fast.  It's 3 am and you need to hide a body.  Who do you call?  There's your WP.  
    Posted by MyNameIsNot[/QUOTE]

    This, exactly. There are no hard and fast rules when it comes to your WP. You can really do whatever you'd like. Also, keep in mind that you and your FI's sides do not need to be even, and it's completely fine to have mixed sides (guys on your side and vice versa.) Best of luck in your planning.
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    Exactly nine. Otherwise the Wedding Police come after you.
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    Have however many or few you want! On a wedding show I saw a wedding party with 21 Bridesmaids and 21 Groomsmen!
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    I had three, so that is what I voted for. 

    But really, you don't need any... and can have as many as you'd like.  Just choose people who you are close to and want by your side!
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_wedding-party_many-bms-sufficiant?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:37Discussion:c608eb95-2910-446f-aa96-e2799a028057Post:94377c8c-68e0-4211-9ff6-048a2e5f1aaa">Re: How many BMs is sufficiant?</a>:
    [QUOTE]Exactly nine. Otherwise the Wedding Police come after you.
    Posted by mbcdefg[/QUOTE]
    I thought they only came after you for uneven wedding parties?
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_wedding-party_many-bms-sufficiant?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:37Discussion:c608eb95-2910-446f-aa96-e2799a028057Post:45abb38f-6b14-4e9a-86a0-7826fd1dc633">Re: How many BMs is sufficiant?</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: How many BMs is sufficiant? : I thought they only came after you for uneven wedding parties?
    Posted by acmj11[/QUOTE]
    They might also come after you for not having a wedding party or having mixed-gender wedding parties.
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_wedding-party_many-bms-sufficiant?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:37Discussion:c608eb95-2910-446f-aa96-e2799a028057Post:c23d3972-41bd-4a70-af71-a5ce26d7b4bd">Re: How many BMs is sufficiant?</a>:
    [QUOTE]I had three, so that is what I voted for.  But really, you don't need any... and can have as many as you'd like.  Just choose people who you are close to and want by your side!
    Posted by Wiscisbliss[/QUOTE]

    Me too.
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    What's the limit?  You must have 1 bridesmaid for every 13.7 guests.  If you don't, your marriage is not considered legal in 37 of the continental United States, and Wisconsin is on that list of 37, so be very careful.

    Seriously, why would there be a limit on how many people can stand up with you at your wedding?

    But a big and hearty good luck to you.


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    Ditto to most of the PP that were giving advice- whatever you feel like! I liked the comment "It's 3am, who do you call?" I love it! It's so true; those would be your nearest and dearest and people you trust! If you happen to have 10 of those people, that's great! If you have 2, that's awesome! It's QUALITY not QUANTITY. =)

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