So my sister and I are 5 years apart (I'm 21, she is 16). We love each other very much, and are close, but have always been in two diff. stages all our lives. Apparently, she assumed that she would be my MOH. I have never once assumed that. I was planning on making a close friend from college my MOH. I really didn't know what to do. My parents suggested I make her an honorary MOH that way she still feels like she is playing a big role, but that way I can also have my main MOH. After some thinking, I began to wonder will this hurt her feelings (being second best). Also, is honorary MOH too redundant??? So, I was wondering should I just have two MOHs? or should I just go ahead and make my sister MOH and my friend a bridesmaid (after all she is my sister and family, and will always be there for me). Or leave it MOH & honorary BM. I just feel that she will be too young (will be 17 when I'm married), to know how to help me with things or the things that come with being a MOH. What does everyone think on this situation??