Hi all!
I'm having a wedding next year, and I have a friend who wants to be MoH, but...I don't want her in my wedding at all! We've been friends on and off for over ten years, and at this point on my side, it's more of a "we're just friends because we've known each other so long", but on her side it's "we're totally bffs all the way". Her general demeanor is rude and disrespecful, and she stops at nothing to be the center of attention. How do I tactfully tell her I don't want her in my wedding?
I don't know why people automatically *assume* they are in someone's wedding, that to me is rude and a little selfish.
Help?