So...
I haven't officially asked my girls to be my BM. But they already have an idea that it's coming.
So my future sister in law told me that incase I was considering her to be a BM, to count her OUT because SHE HATES GETTING HER PICTURE TAKEN. I already knew she didn't like cameras but the problem is that FI and I decided on her and her husband to be our BM and MOH. I am scared she will freak out and decline the offer but hope she will take one for the team accept. I don't know what to do or how to approach it....
My bday is on Thanksgiving and I plan on asking my girls that evening with a cute card. Plz help with suggestions