My fiance has 3 groomsmen....i have 1 bridesmaid...
my fiance keeps pressuring me into asking one of my cousins who lives across the country and im not sure if she is even planning on coming to the wedding and the ex girl friend of his best man....i am close with both girls but i feel like asking the one who lives far away to be a BM puts alot of pressure on her to have to come out here for the wedding, and the ex of the best man is a twin who wont do anything without her sister and i dont really feel like i should have to ask both in fear she wont do it if her sister doesnt, ...im completely happy with my 1 bridesmaid (my sister), do i need to get 2 more or do i just tell my fiance to back off?