I'm trying to put together my wedding party, which is mostly siblings mine and fiance however I have a younger brother who is mentally handicapped. Physically he is seventeen. Mentally...more six or seven. I hate to say it but he will probably not have a wedding of his own, and he won't really be able to participate with the groomsmens activities. I love him dearly and would love to find a way for him to participate in the ceremony, so I've been toying with the idea of having him be a ring bearer despite his age. Any opinions? Would it be too un traditional to have a 17 year old ring bearer? Or any ideas for another good way for him to participate?