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no maid of honor?

happy_sarahhappy_sarah member
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Is it all right to have bridesmaids but no MOH?
I have 4 friends to be bridesmaids and FIs 2 younger sisters to be junior bridesmaids. I can't decide on picking a MOH because I love all my friends very much. However I can tell one of my friends is just dying to be MOH. I don't feel right picking her (I haven't known her that long)
Should I just ask her anyway? 
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Re: no maid of honor?

  • trix1223trix1223 member
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    It's just fine.  If you can't choose anyone, don't.  Simply say to them what you said here "I love you all to much to choose just one."
    "Trix, it's what they/our parents wanted. Why so judgemental? And why is your wedding date over a year and a half ago? And why do you not have a groom's name? And why have you posted over 12,000 posts? And why do you always say mean things to brides?" palegirl146
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  • jesibel14jesibel14
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    No.  Have a bunch of BMs.  Don't have her as a MOH just bc she wants to be one.

    You don't need to have a MOH.
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  • aerinpegadrakaerinpegadrak member
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    Perfectly fine not to have one.  Just tell them what you told us, "I love you all too much to choose between you."  Then you can divvy up the MOH's ceremonial duties (hold your bouquet, sign the license, give the toast, etc) among them.
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  • bablingbrookebablingbrooke member
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    What trix said.
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