Well the thread title says it all. I'm down a bridesmaid and flower girl. I originally had three bridesmaids, a MOH, and flower girl. My out of state cousin was a bm and her daughter was my flower girl... Yes, I'm sad she is nowunableto afford to financially come, and now I'm scrambling to replace her and her daughter but what reaaaaally has me steamed is... She has not yet told me! Yeah. My mom called me today and told me my grandma ( who lives in the same state as the cousin) told them my cousin said she couldn't afford it. Apparently that was yesterday ( Easter ). So my dad called and left my cousin a voicemail that basically said