So I was thinking of asking my brother to be my man of honor, especially since I don't have any girlfriends that I'm even really close with nor do I have sisters or any future sister in laws.. Is this is a good idea? And how do I go about it? He lives 5-6 hours away, so asking him face to face won't be happening for awhile. I know its not traditional but then again our wedding probably won't be either.. we're not likely to be getting married in a church and I was considering not even having any attendants because of the whole girlfriend issue.