My Matron of Honor is my sister, she was the obvious choice. I was her MOH and she is mine, that's just how it's always been. I'm perfectly happy with that too, I think it's great that we both have that bond together and that we always will.
Here's the problem. She cares nothing about my wedding. My best friend and my future sister in law are the other two BMs and they have been nothing but supportive and helpful through all of my wedding planning! Even though my future sister in law is located in another country right now, she has been so helpful!!
I sent out an email to all of my BMs going over a few dates and some info about the dresses so they will be in the know about everything. My two BMs sent me back the sweetest email about how thoughtful and caring of a bride I am being. I really appreciated that from them! My MOH? She texted me and said she finally made it through my novel I sent out. That was it.
Apparently, my sister in law sent my MOH (sister) and BM an email about upcoming showers, bachelorette party and surprises for me. My sister forwarded me the email (which I was not supposed to know about) and explained to me that she is dumb to be thinking about showers so early and she can't deal with my wedding right now because she is too busy and she just has too much going on. She asked what she was supposed to say to that because she doesn't know what to say back. I read her email and was in tears. I don't know how I can have a sister and matron of honor that is basically the only stressful part I have for my wedding.
Does anyone have any advice for me?!