Today my fiance told me who he wants to be his best man. I was actually surprised that he chose this friend instead of his brother or cousin.
I have never had a good relationship with this friend. He is disrespectful, rude, and has literally pushed me around (yes, he put his hands on me, yet my fiance is still best friends with him). I try to avoid him at all costs, because whenever I'm around him he's always saying or doing something horrible and often causes me to actually start crying, which only happens when I'm incredibly angry or frustrated.
I didn't say anything to my fiance, but I really don't want him in the wedding party (I don't want a wedding party at all, but that's another story). I don't care if he comes to the wedding, but I really don't want him making a speech or standing up with him during the ceremony. This friend has always been a sore subject between us, one that I try to avoid, but I definitely think it's about time we talked about it again. I just have no idea how to bring it up.
Should I just suck it up and let this (horrible) person be in my wedding? Or do I have a valid point? I don't want to be a bridezilla so soon after the engagement!