I have 4 bridesmaids in my party 2 are amazing they help me with anything i need. The other 2 dont seem interested to help at all, anytime we have alittle get to together to talk about bridesmaids dresses or anything to the subject its all about what bridesmaids dresses they want for there wedding. They don't go with my theme or my dress at all, they never wanna help me out with my wedding things they start planning there wedding and use my computer to look things up for there weddings. There both single as well. We all went to a wedding expo together and i was interested in looking for bridesmaids dresses for them and looking at everything else as well they ditched me to try on bridal dresses for there wedding while i was waiting for them and keeping my mouth shut we finally started to go look at venues and other things.They kept going to venues and things i wasnt interested in so finally i decided to look at things i was interested in instead of waisting my time looking at things for there some time in the future wedding and worrying about staying with them when i needed to get mine figured out since its next year. I never got rude or pissy with them cause i wanted to enjoy this since you mostly get married once i decided to not let it bother me to much untill they came up to me saying i was being rude and i was the one that kept ditching them. I don't know what to do or say to them one of them ive been friends with for 13 years i dont want this to ruin our friendship but at the same its hard to get there input on things they will be wearing with out it turning to what they want for dresses they would have used or wear if it was there wedding and never liking what i pick out. What shall i do i need help please