So last summer I was in a friends wedding. We only reconnected the summer before and have not really been close friends since 9th grade maybe. However, we have know each other most of our lives. I was happy to be in her wedding. Now I am getting married and she is not in my wedding. I love her but my wedding party consists of friends I love to death and have been steady friend with through the years. Now she is mad and not speaking to me. I am not really sure what to do or how to address this. Does anyone have any advice? Am I being a jerk for not having her in my wedding? Please help!!