So my fiance and I are trying to figure out the order for our BM and GM. We love the beautiful pop of color between black suits and blue dresses, so we're considering alternating the BMs and GM. We have 5 of each, so mine would be MOH,GM,BM,GM, BM and visa versa on his side. You get the idea. Our wedding is outside at a lake front park, so we both think it would be bautiful. Plus one of the GM is my older brother, so I love the idea of him being on my side (yes, I realize it's not that important, and I wouldn't make the decision based on that. But it's a nice plus :} ) Is this weird? It's slightly untraditional. .