So my MOH has been one of my best friends since we were about 5; so it was a no brainer that I chose her to be my MOH. Also, she too has recently been engaged and her wedding is going to be 2 months after mine and I too am her MOH. The problem is she is not being a good MOH and I don't know how to confront her about this.
She has not gone to a single bridal show with me (all my other BM have attended at least one with me). Has not gone to any taistings with me (other BM have attended). She has not helped with flowers, centerpieces, or other decor deicisons (also other BM have helped).
Any suggestions how I can confront her about this. I understand she is busy but I've made time to book her reception hall, find her BM dresses, and help select her flowers. I'd just like a little help in return.