Hi girls! I mostly just lurk on this board but I have a question - FI and I met with our Rabbi last night and I am super excited because he really seemed to understand how we want our ceremony.The only thing that I was unaware of was needing a plain wedding band for the ceremony. He explained the tradition and I understand but my wedding band has diamonds...The problem with getting a second band for the ceremony is that I have a bad contact allergy to silver and most other metals - I can wear gold or platinum. I don't want to buy an expensive band just for the ceremony.Should I talk to the rabbi and see how strongly he feels about having a plain band? Or try to borrow one a plain band? Or suck it up and buy a gold one?TIA!!