I can't decide if I want to exchange love letters before our First Look prior to the ceremony, or if we want to seal our unread love letters in a box with a bottle of wine to open at our 1st anniversary (and repeat yearly, while collecting the love letters into a book), of there is another idea where the letters and wine are sealed for a 10 year anniversay and only opened if having a really rocky point where we need to fall in love again... What are you ladies doing or what are your thoughts?