So FI wants to get married at his Best Man's parent's house. I've never been there. Everytime we make arrangements to go they fall through.
After our Eparty, we put wedding planning on hold for about a month to take a break. The party was so fun, but a lot of work. Now, that we are getting back on track I've asked FI to make arrangements to go see his BM's parents house. But, BM won't pick up his phone or text back. Or if he does it's super short and hours or days later.
We know he isn't upset with FI or anything like that. He is just super busy. He owns his own business and lately has been having a lot of problems with his employees. We get that. I get that.
I'm just concerned about him not being reliable or disappearing on the wedding day. FI says don't worry it'll be fine, but FI is super mellow and doesn't worry about anything. He says if he isn't there it's no big deal. Um, I don't get it but whatever.
I'm also concerned about using his parent's house if just going there to see it is such a hassle. I feel like maybe we should start looking into other options, but FI keeps saying, "no we will just get a hold of him and go look here first"
To summerize this whole post: I'm freaking out. What should I do?