I'm bored

acaponi87

Today is FI's birthday (27!) and I am bored so:

What are 3 non-generic things that make your FI awesome/unique?

1) I don't know how, but he makes the best hot chocolate ever. I don't even like hot chocolate but he has this uncanny ability to make it taste delicious. It will be the perfect temperture, perfect consistancy and he can do it with any brand.

2) Chest hair. Enough to make him "manly" but not so much that you're like "ewwww".

3) He designs the engines that will be in planes in 30 years. Which I just think is cool!

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amonis

1) Fi is the hardest working, most driven man that I have ever met.  He has two small business that he has started from the ground up as well as a normal job.  He sets his goals high and seems to always attain them.  He would literally do anything for anyone.

2) Despite how busy we both are and how opposite our schedules are, he never forgets to make time for me or us. He makes sure I always know how much he loves me and takes the time to keep our "spark" alive.

3) He is SO stinkin' funny.  I am constantly cracking up at the things he says intentionally and unintentionally.  I love that he can make me laugh even when I'm upset or mad.

kelsey+brandon

Fun!!

1) FI is a completely self-made man. He's paid for all of school by himself (we have the private law school loans to prove it) and has worked for everything he has. His commitment to everything he's ever tried to do makes me know that he'll put 200% into our marriage every day.

2) FI knows me better than I ever thought it was possible. He gets me and my sarcasm completely and understands what all my little one word answers mean. He also gives the best hugs ever, which always make everything better. 

3)FI is an amazing Christian. He came into his faith all on his own and even found a church that he wanted to go to starting at a very young ago, despite where his parents went to church. He has ministered to so many people (especially teens) and it makes me so happy to know all the lives he's touched and helped become closer to God.

janeash

1) He is Australian....he was willing to literally follow me to the other end of the world for our relationship (and I will gladly do the same for him in a few years time)

2) His personality totally doesn't suit his career choice.  When I first met him, he was so interesting and energetic that I thought he would have some totally awesome manly outdoorsy job......he is an accountant (and a very good one....he is very smart).  I know he'd rather be a golf pro or a surf pro, but he is way too practical for that.

3) He has an unbelievably large amount of patience when it comes to most things.  I have seen him get really angry about twice since we have been together (almost 5 years) and it was mostly because I was being a COMPLETE pain in the a$$.

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1) He is the most caring, sensitive, loving man I have ever met.  He will do ANYTHING to make me happy and he just has such a big heart.  He's always doing something for me or someone else and he is so unselfish.  At times I find myself thinking "Man, he is going to be an awesome father."  and "He is seriously the perfect man & husband for me."

2) He is the most dedicated, hard-working, driven person I know.  He is a pilot at Express Jet Airlines which is through Continental Airlines, and he is driven to become a pilot for Southwest Airlines.  He has surpassed all of his goals so far and he is only 24.  I think he is truly amazing and so intelligent.

3) He is an awesome cook!  He can cook soo much better than me and I love it when he teaches me things.  He grew up with a single mom and so he helped a lot in the kitchen and with other household duties.  I think that is why he is so good at it and also so helpful with doing the laundry, the dishes, cleaning, etc.  I love him for that because I know a lot of men don't do those kinds of things.  I am so thankful I have a man who does.

Skittles612

1) He is my rock.  I can't say that I'm the most emotionally stable person, but he always knows how to bring me back to normal.  Whether its just letting me vent or cry or explaining how I interpreted something wrong.

2)He is intuitive.  He can pick up on things like manorisms (sp?) or personality traits that I never see.  Whether its someone we know or a new person we met he will make an opinion on them, which to me seems to early.  But down the road he ends up being right (which drives me nuts sometimes).  So I always ask him what his opinion is on others before I make a true decision. (I tend to think everyone is good when the evidence against that is slapping me in the face...)

3)  He is funny.  He makes me laugh all the time and I love that.  Nothing is better than those gut-renching, all out, almost pee your pants laughs that he brings.

daria24

1) He can't cook to save his life, but he makes the most amazing cupcakes. 2) He is the most independent person I know, and i thought I was independent! Little things like he will sit down to eat and realize he needs a spoon, I could be standing right next to the utensil drawer but he will get up and get it himself. It's both a relief to have someone who doesn't expect to be "waited on" and frustrating because I want to do things for him sometimes. 3) He is the sort of person who finds something he likes and sticks with it. He lens exactly one brand/cut of jeans and has 8 pairs of them. He owns at least 12 of the exact same shirt. He's had the same watch for 30 years and never wants a new one. I've read that people like Steve Jobs are like that, maybe I'm marrying a genius

ncd5015

1. He can have a conversation with anyone.  He meets people everywhere he goes and strikes up conversation. He makes you feel like you've been friends your whole life. And he remembers everyone!

2. He's a great cook! He does these combination of spices that just taste so good.

3. He makes me feel really special. He allows me to be me; the good, the bad, the ugly and still loves me. He'll make me laugh when I'm sad, puts me in my place when I'm being out of line, and supports everything I do. He's my rock.

cabates1

Integrity.  So honest.  He is a carpenter and never takes the "cheap" way out. Takes pride in his work, I always call it a talent actually.  He stands behind his work, does extras for customers all the time and has a big heart.

Zimsgirl

FI is everything I wanted and then some. He is so hard working. I'm proud of him for his military service no matter how hard it was. He's paid for everything himself like Kelsey's FI. He's so sweet. Last year he'd have dinner delivered to me at my dorm room when I'd be having a bad day or flowers just because.

sweet_melissa81

1. He is one of the most caring, considerate, and thoughtful individuals that I have ever known. My brother lost a bunch of weight and the winter jacket we bought him last christmas was just too big to wear, so my brother was wearing a hoodie zip-up jacket (he only works at CVS and is going to school, so he's broke), so fiance was so worried he went out and bought him a new winter jacket just because he knew my brother needed one and was worried about my brother not having a warm enough jacket. He is that way with everyone.

2. He is also very smart, talented, and a hard worker and strives to do his best all while becoming more motivated and focused while under high stress. I have no clue how he does it. I have been to different business outings with him and his clients adore him. He gets along with everyone from the older ladies, business higher ups, and everywhere else inbetween.

3. I also love the way that he shows me love and affection. I really know he cares about me and I can also see that he wants to make sure that I am okay. The way he treats me lets me know that he will be an incredible father. Which I always said that I would never marry a man who I couldn't picture being the father of my children, that I would never want my own daughter to marry, or a man that I would never want my son to be like. I can honestly say that he is the first guy that I have ever known that I would want to be the father of my children, the type of man I would want my daughter to marry, and the type of man I would want my son to be and that's why I know it's right.

Carebear62584

Just 3?  I could list so many reasons why he is so great.

1)  I can completely be myself around him.  I can be corny, disgusting, burp, fart, and on the rare occassion be fall over drunk and he just laughs at me.  He doesn't look at me like I'm crazy or something is wrong with me.  In fact, he just says "You're lucky you're cute" or "you're lucky I love you".

2)  He has an incredible amount of patience.  We've been together for almost 2 1/2 years and he has only gotten mad at me one time EVER!  That was only because after our endless amounts of snow last year I asked if he was going outside to shovel or chip away at the ice and as much as he didn't want to, he did it.  But I sat inside on the couch watching tv instead of helping so I can't blame him there.  He doesn't see the point in fighting and has brought that great quality out in me.  We never get mad at each other.

3)  He has the biggest heart and will do anything for anybody.  Last year when I found out that I didn't even get considered for an interview at the school I worked at and the Assistant Principal's daughter got the position I was devastated.  He knew how upset I was and brought me home a molten lava cake from Chilis....just because he knows it's my favorite and I was upset.  When he saw tears in my eyes he held me and wouldn't let go until I calmed down.  Although he's not very handy, he also went to his dad's and his cousin's, and his mom's after the terrible snowstorm in October and helped them to clean up their yards.

This was so hard to write because it was hard to put it into just 3 qualities.  I could go on and on and on about how wonderful he is and how lucky I am!  Great topic!!