So I booked my reception but I have no idea where to have my ceremony. I moved to Minnesota less then a year ago and don't belong to a church. Fiance belongs to a church in his home town witch his 20 miles from Alexandria where we are having our reception and where all the hotel's are where we have the room blocks. I called a his moms church today witch is in town and they want 700 because we are not members. My fiance does not want to change church. Its such a small town I have no idea where else to have my ceremony. If we have it at the church at my Fiance home town our out of town guest will have to 40 miles round trip...would that be okay? Plus I don't want a gap between the ceremony and reception....just drive town. 40 miles to far? Any ideas on what I should do? Because I am soo lost.