I get so aggravated when I see other posters telling people that the bridal party only has to show up in the dress you want and that's it. Like, sure, that's all they're REQUIRED to do, but they don't have to turn into total a-holes when you get engaged. Like when people post about how their bridesmaids won't even give opinions when ASKED, and everyone jumps on the OP for giving her girls too much work to do! I just think, first of all, what crappy friends, why'd she choose them, and second of all, why does everyone on here have a stick up their booty about the BP?? I chose my BP because they're my FRIENDS and now that I'm engaged, they're interested in my wedding, just like I will be interested in their wedding when they get married! Ughhh. This kind of went all over the place, but I had to get it out of my system!