So ever since we got engaged, I have been really struggling with who to invite from college. I was in a sorority at school in CT, and there was a group of 7 of us that were pretty close. I would say I was very close with 4 of the 6. My issue is that upon graduating four years ago, I have really fallen out of touch with most of these girls. Some I haven't seen since graduation! 2 live in Cali, and the other 4 live in CT while I am 2 hours away in NH.
There are 2 that I talk to on a monthly basis who are definitely going to be invited. I am not sure if I should invite them all just for the sake of our past memories? Or if I should invite the 4 I was closest to back then? Or just the 2. I don't want to hurt feelings, but then again I have tried hard to stay in touch with these girls via e-mail, calls, text messages and christmas cards and I get nothing in return. I feel hurt and nostalgic, but I'm not sure if I should just focus on those people who are still in my life? Or try to remain connected to my past?
What would you do? Please help!