Ok i should be sleeping, i have been busting my butt all day moving my kitchen, it is done & unpacked, but the kitchen is cluttered with my den stuff that i can't put in just yet till we have the rest of the stuff. We are moving in 7 hours but before i leave i just have to get a situation off my chest.
My fiances brother is getting married saturday, they have been together for 1 year & he is in a hurry because he lost his ex due to him being so controlling. That is fine. Here is the scenario & the parents are of the mindset it is their wedding, it is up to them how to do it rather than tell them this is wrong.
2nd wedding for him, 1st for her. They are having a jp @ one brothers farm. They are only having the parents & the one brother & sister in law for the ceremony. They DID NOT invite any other of the siblings (3) or his kids whom he did not even want to tell for the ceremony. He invited the siblings for a bbq after the ceremony & everyone else to come @ 8.
Furthermore we did not even get invited from them, their mom phoned last night saying that he told her to make sure everyone knew about it. My fiance told him today that i was insulted that they never asked us themselves, but never told him i am even more insulted that they never invited the siblings, especially since they are all close. It would be different if they eloped but they are not doing that, or even a courthouse wedding. They expect everyone to come celebrate their marriage & are calling it a wedding but it is not a wedding, it is a party. They do not want gifts or money (seriously do not so that isn't a big deal) but i do not see how they think this is ok.
I do not understand any of this & i will not be congratulating them, the only reason i am going is so that i can drive my fiance home if he gets drunk. I would not go if it was in town. He told my fiance to bring the tent so no driving home drunk (if he had to go himself) & my fiance said tonight he thought we were staying there & that the only reason i wanted to come home is because i do not agree with it. I was like um no we are in the middle of moving, we do not have time to waste a day & a half for this ==. He works 12 days in a row starting next week & if we stayed out there it would be middle of the afternoon sunday before we came home, would be sluggish from being tired (i do not get hungover) and nothing would get done, then he would go to work & i would be stuck doing it all.
I know i have a reason to feel insulted but i don't get why people think that stuff like this is ok.
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