So on March 26th 2011 Nick my soon to be hubby asked if i would marry him. Of course I said yes ( I waited 7 yrs for him to ask). So like any super excited bride to-be I text, emailed and call everyone we could think of. On my moms side I only have one persons phone number. That would be my cousin Sara. So I called her up to tell her the news and to see if she would pass along the great news. Well like 3 weeks later we were both on Facebook. She sends me a message and is like how is my favorite cousin in the whole wide world? I was like I'm good. How are you? Before she says anything else. She says if you don't already have your bridesmaids pick out I will be happy to stand up for you meaning we have always been close. I was so shocked that she would just come out and ask that. For one I already do my my girls picked out and for two I need thought of us as that close. The last time I had talked to her was like 6 months before that and even longer before that. Also if we were really that close why wasn't I asked to be in ether of her 2 wedding? I don't know I just thought it was kind of rude for her to say that and kind of try and push her way in. She also lives 3 hours away from me even if we were to have her in the wedding she would have to travel a lot to get her with her 4 kids. It would be just to crazy for me. I think im done venting lol.