TMI QOTD - 12/20

MMRoberts11

With the holidays, if your FI went above and beyond to get you something amazing would you be more likely to do something for him?

This question comes from one of my friends.  He asked what he should get his GF to be more likely to get a bj.

kelsey+brandon

I don't think I understand.

You're saying that your friend wants to get his GF something nice whereas she normally just give him a bj?

That really puts the "Ho ho ho" in Christmas.

Megbo2012

I read it as, he wants to get a gift good enough to secure a BJ. lol

sleblanc72

I think if I understand right he wants to make sure he gets her something nice enough to be able to get a bj.

Ash61612

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[QUOTE]I read it as, he wants to get a gift good enough to secure a BJ. lol
Posted by Megbo2012[/QUOTE]

this is how I read it

kelsey+brandon

Well that's just wrong. That's not the point of buying someone a gift.

FI did give me diamond earrings for our second Christmas together and they're amazing, but he didn't have a sexual motive behind it.

chelseamb11

That guy sure sounds like a winner lol.  The point of giving a gift is to make the receiver happy, not to get a BJ.

That being said,  I always try to give FI kickass gifts regardless of what he's giving me.  This year I rallyied with his parents, his sister, and both my parenst to buy him this awesome new fancy bow for hunting.  He loved it.

Megbo2012

Chels, you already gave him the Christmas gift? Is that so he could use it during deer season? Also I love your sig picture.

If I required a present every time we were intimate, well, that's a lot of presents and we'd be broke.  He should want to get something nice to surprise her, because he loves her/wants to, blah blah blah.

ncd5015

Sure takes the thoughtfulness out of Christmas...

Ash61612

I think it shows how shallow a guy is if he expects sexual "favors" behind a gift.

chelseamb11

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[QUOTE]Chels, you already gave him the Christmas gift? Is that so he could use it during deer season? Also I love your sig picture. If I required a present every time we were intimate, well, that's a lot of presents and we'd be broke.  He should want to get something nice to surprise her, because he loves her/wants to, blah blah blah.
Posted by Megbo2012[/QUOTE]

Yeah we gave it to him back in October so he could use it for hunting :)
And thanks! This whole how to wish someone well over this holiday season is getting ridiculous

Megbo2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: QOTD - 12/20 : Yeah we gave it to him back in October so he could use it for hunting :) And thanks!<strong> This whole how to wish someone well over this holiday season is getting ridiculous</strong>
Posted by chelseamb11[/QUOTE]

<div>That's what I thought, makes sense! </div><div>
</div><div>And I totally agree.</div>

MMRoberts11

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[QUOTE]Sure takes the thoughtfulness out of Christmas...
Posted by ncd5015[/QUOTE]

That's what I thought too.

I told him not to give her something just so you can have sex, but to make her happy.  Other people I know suggested to him to get her a nice guitar or something... oh people.

sleblanc72

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: QOTD - 12/20 : Yeah we gave it to him back in October so he could use it for hunting :) And thanks! <strong>This whole how to wish someone well over this holiday season is getting ridiculous</strong>
Posted by chelseamb11[/QUOTE]
Agreed...holiday stuff like this in general gets blown way out of proportion IMO.

midgetthemighty

I'd be more likely to give him a HUGE hug and kiss out of my excitement for whatever it was. That's about it.

Tiffany6912

Oh, I was given one of those gifts before.  It was my first (only) Christmas with a now-ex.  I was pretty broke that year so we agreed no gifts, we would just go to dinner the day after to celebrate. 

When I got to his place that day, he had two perfectly wrapped blue boxes from Tiffany's waiting for me on the table.

At first I was very upset, here he went out and bought me very expensive earrings and a necklace but I had nothing for him.  Then he said to me something along the lines of "I thought instead of us going to dinner, you can give me a certain gift in return."

We went to dinner.

Megbo2012

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[QUOTE]Oh, I was given one of those gifts before.  It was my first (only) Christmas with a now-ex.  I was pretty broke that year so we agreed no gifts, we would just go to dinner the day after to celebrate.  When I got to his place that day, he had two perfectly wrapped blue boxes from Tiffany's waiting for me on the table.<strong> At first I was very upset, here he went out and bought me very expensive earrings and a necklace but I had nothing for him.  Then he said to me something along the lines of "I thought instead of us going to dinner, you can give me a certain gift in return." We went to dinner.</strong>
Posted by Tiffany6912[/QUOTE]

<div>Lmao, I hope you kept them hahahaha</div>

Tiffany6912

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: QOTD - 12/20 : Lmao, I hope you kept them hahahaha
Posted by Megbo2012[/QUOTE]
You better believe it! 

diamondx423

HAHAHA boys are dumb. Tiffany, thats hysterical. I too hope you kept them.

If FI went above and beyond for Christmas, I would get him an amazing birthday gift because his bday is in Feb. The last thing he'd get for a good gift is a BJ. Maybe if he cleaned the house and did the laundry...

Ash61612

oh, Tiffany. That story makes me giggle. Good gifts, but horrible expectations afterwards!

MMRoberts11

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[QUOTE]Oh, I was given one of those gifts before.  It was my first (only) Christmas with a now-ex.  I was pretty broke that year so we agreed no gifts, we would just go to dinner the day after to celebrate.  When I got to his place that day, he had two perfectly wrapped blue boxes from Tiffany's waiting for me on the table. <strong>At first I was very upset, here he went out and bought me very expensive earrings and a necklace but I had nothing for him.  Then he said to me something along the lines of "I thought instead of us going to dinner, you can give me a certain gift in return." We went to dinner.
</strong>Posted by Tiffany6912[/QUOTE]

Lol.

Tiffany6912

Sadly, his genius did not stop there.  Thank goodness I met FI when I did,  who knows how long I would have carried on with that mess!

acaponi87

Haha.

FI would never do something amazing specifically so he could get sex but if he did something amazing he'd probably get it. Not as a "reward" but because I'd want to be with him like that.

HarperBargo

Boys can be real stupid.

I have done nice things for FI when has gone beyond the every day stuff before. But not always sexually. For example, November was really stressful for both of us with jobs and other hectic life stuff. FI surprised me with a date night when he bought tickets for us to see Wicked. It was such a cute gesture that I actually busted my butt at work and got home early to make him his favorite dinner and dessert. It was one of those you make me so happy that I want to show you that I truly appreciate it kind of things. I know he was surprised to see dinner out on the table when he got home.

KrisKenny

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[QUOTE]HAHAHA boys are dumb. Tiffany, thats hysterical. I too hope you kept them.<strong> If FI went above and beyond for Christmas, I would get him an amazing birthday gift</strong> because his bday is in Feb. <strong>The last thing he'd get for a good gift is a BJ. Maybe if he cleaned the house and did the laundry...
</strong>Posted by diamondx423[/QUOTE]

Bold exactly!

kaitlyn142

I'm pretty sure that thought would never cross FI's mind. I don't need to be bribed for sex. If he ever got me something really extravagent, he knows i'd be more likely to be irritated he spent so much money on something. The best thing he ever got me was a replacement when I broke my favorite mug one day. He had one specially designed and everything. I still love it.

chelseakopperud

Wow- some guys seriously need help.

DodgersBride

Umm I don't think my first thought after getting a great gift from FI is "is this BJ worthy?" To answer the question no I would be more willing to give FI "something" because he got me a great gift.

Megbo2012

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[QUOTE]<strong>Umm I don't think my first thought after getting a great gift from FI is "is this BJ worthy?" </strong>To answer the question no I would be more willing to give FI "something" because he got me a great gift.
Posted by DodgersBride[/QUOTE]

<div>Right? Is there some point scale that I should be using?? </div>

DodgersBride

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: TMI QOTD - 12/20 : Right? Is there some point scale that I should be using?? 
Posted by Megbo2012[/QUOTE]

Shiit if there is a point scale imagine how many BJs would our E rings  have us doing.

chelseakopperud

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: TMI QOTD - 12/20 : Shiit if there is a point scale imagine how many BJs would our E rings  have us doing.
Posted by DodgersBride[/QUOTE]

BAHAHAHAHA!