I'm going to be off TK for awhile but before I go I want to thank you all for your support. The recent problems between FI and I have been difficult, but all your kind words and support have meant a lot to me.
As for FI and I, we've made a decision to just stand still for now. We're not canceling our vendors quite yet, but we're also not going forward with wedding plans at the time. We're going to try couples counseling and spend some time away from his family. Neither of us is ready to call it quits, but at the same time, things cannot continue as they are. In January I'll be relocating for my career and I've promised him that I will make a decision on getting married before then so that he can decide whether to move with me or not.
I may be back someday, but for now we're just putting everything on the back burner and focusing on us.
I hope that you all continue to enjoy the wedding planning process and have much happiness with your FI's. Thank you again for all your support. You have no idea how much your kindness has meant to me in this tough time.