Sooo one of my MOH was an extremely good friend of mine since elementary school. We take yearly trips, lived together, the whole 9. But for the past 6-7 months she's been MIA and whenever my matron or I asks for her help she gets really snippy and then just shows up and acts like its all good.
I have another BM who I am really close to and talks to me every day and asks what can she do next.
Last week I sent out a wedding weekend itinerary and other stuff. MOH texts me the next morning saying she wont be there on Friday (the day alll the grunt work needs to be done).
I would really like to ask the other girl to be my MOH. Is it too late? They've ordered their dresses and the MOH dress has a strap but the BM one does not. I'D pay for BMs strap to be added. What do you think?