sooooo FI's mother died..............

dontemccauley

now what.....she was only 49........dont know what to say or do.......we had to pay fpr EVERYTHING.... she had no insurance......so that was about 4000 of or wedding money.....I know it not about the money but dang! So right now im just trying to make sure he is ok....even though he will not talk to me about it........keep us in your prayers.....

dlthompson22

So sorry to hear about your loss. I will keep you all in prayers. God will make a way for you all to pull thru it. Just give FI his space right now and he will open to talk to you about it. Just let him know that you are there if he needs anything at all and you will be ok. Love Ya Sister

keyaira04

I am sorry for you and fi loss...

dontemccauley

Thanks ladies.......I appreciate it

CaseynMike

I am sorry for your family loss. I will keep you all in my prayers.

nursing2u

Praying for you guys.. Keep your faith held high!!!

thedivav

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/cultural-wedding-boards_african-american-weddings_sooooo-fis-mother-died?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Cultural%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:400Discussion:0e92876d-5d7b-4326-9114-4f13e291cd93Post:538fc967-ff5c-4a06-a57a-9cc7263016f1">sooooo FI's mother died..............</a>:
[QUOTE]now what.....she was only 49........dont know what to say or do.......we had to pay fpr EVERYTHING.... she had no insurance......so that was about 4000 of or wedding money.....I know it not about the money but dang! So right now im just trying to make sure he is ok....even though he will not talk to me about it........keep us in your prayers.....
Posted by dontemccauley[/QUOTE]
sorry to hear this<div>it will take time </div><div>just let him know that you are there for him </div><div>
</div><div>i burried my dad 3 months ago Fi burried his mom in 04 its not easy at all but you both will make it through </div>

Toiizloved

Soooo Sorry hon.. will keep your family in my prayers

footballwife77

So very sorry to hear! It's going to take time to process everything and get back on track, but you're in my thoughts. Be strong and hold your fiance up.

CreoleBride30

So sorry to hear about your FMIL passing. As Footballwife stated, it will take time to process this. Praying for yall. God will provide.

Cha

MissusD1116

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/cultural-wedding-boards_african-american-weddings_sooooo-fis-mother-died?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Cultural Wedding BoardsForum:400Discussion:0e92876d-5d7b-4326-9114-4f13e291cd93Post:1408d365-5540-4636-a404-68c5013f8213">Re: sooooo FI's mother died..............</a>:
[QUOTE]So sorry to hear about your FMIL passing. As Footballwife stated, it will take time to process this. Praying for yall. God will provide. Cha
Posted by CreoleBride30[/QUOTE]



All of this....

kcc76

I am so sorry for your loss!

MrsSmith2Be02

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/cultural-wedding-boards_african-american-weddings_sooooo-fis-mother-died?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Cultural%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:400Discussion:0e92876d-5d7b-4326-9114-4f13e291cd93Post:538fc967-ff5c-4a06-a57a-9cc7263016f1">sooooo FI's mother died..............</a>:
[QUOTE]now what.....she was only 49........dont know what to say or do.......we had to pay fpr EVERYTHING.... she had no insurance......so that was about 4000 of or wedding money.....I know it not about the money but dang! So right now im just trying to make sure he is ok....even though he will not talk to me about it........keep us in your prayers.....
Posted by dontemccauley[/QUOTE]

I'm so sorry to hear that. I totally understand because when my father passed last year come to find out he had no insurance and he was a freakin' attorney! Made no sense what so ever for people to think they have all the time in the world. His ended up being 8K but my aunt paid for it (his older sister).

(Speaking of which I need to update FI and my stuff set up)

Dannitra01

I am so sorry to hear about you guys' loss. I am holding you up in prayer.

HardyLove222

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/cultural-wedding-boards_african-american-weddings_sooooo-fis-mother-died?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Cultural%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:400Discussion:0e92876d-5d7b-4326-9114-4f13e291cd93Post:538fc967-ff5c-4a06-a57a-9cc7263016f1">sooooo FI's mother died..............</a>:
[QUOTE]now what.....she was only 49........dont know what to say or do.......we had to pay fpr EVERYTHING.... she had no insurance......so that was about 4000 of or wedding money.....I know it not about the money but dang! So right now im just trying to make sure he is ok....even though he will not talk to me about it........keep us in your prayers.....
Posted by dontemccauley[/QUOTE]

Oh my Lord! I am so, so, sorry. My condolences to you, your fiancé and his family. My thoughts and prayers are with you *virtual hug*.

Your FI is mourning, just be there for him the best you can and let him kow that when he's ready...you're there.
<p class="MsoNormal">(My mom is 49 and was in the hospital last week, your post made me call her to ask about her policy. I need to talk to FI about his mom's stuff too.) </p>