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If anyone should find just cause

blue19violetblue19violet member
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why these two should not be wed, speak now or forever hold your peace. Who on your or fi's side would have something to say? Do you have fam members / friends / exes / baby mama/dada who are not too thrilled that you and your man are getting hitched?
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Re: If anyone should find just cause

  • the catthe cat
    500 Comments
    edited December 2011
    His daughter and 2 of my exes. I was actually a teeny tiny bit nervous, b/c there's 1 ex that always contacts me at a bad time. It's crazy, b/c we never really ended. We were just separated by alot of time and space.
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  • GameplanGameplan
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    edited December 2011
    FI's baby mama would love to say something.FI's sister who doesn't really know me might want to say something but I'd hope she'd keep her trap shut as well. She doesn't know me, hasn't taken the time out to get to know me so whatever. My little brother keeps making jokes on how he's going to say something but I told him to be ready to pick his teeth up off the floor cause I'm going to knock 'em out.
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  • alexisrouse00alexisrouse00 member
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    edited December 2011
    My dad thinks that his kids (all 14 of them, well I lost count after 14) should never get married ((major eye rolling)) he wants us to submit to the BF and GF titles. BTW he's announcing his engagement at his GF's party on Saturday...(Psst he doesn't know I already know) did I mention that this would be marriage number 3. Papa was a rolling stone and still is.
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  • blue19violetblue19violet member
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    edited December 2011
    lol, good luck to papa's new fi.
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  • alexisrouse00alexisrouse00 member
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    edited December 2011
    LOL Blue, she's been around for 12-15 years which was during this baby making process. She okay with it!
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  • blue19violetblue19violet member
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    edited December 2011
    alexis, damn, can i sell her a bridge? lol, if she's okay with it...
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  • ishawnamcmishawnamcm
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    edited December 2011
    Ooooo wee!! Big ups Blue on this!!! If I have to listen to my bd talk about my marriage and how that voids so much stuff... or how fi is better than he is.... or can he get it one last time.... or ANY of that other bs!!!! I will seriously be on Snapped!! Hmmm. for fi's side... No one I am aware of. 
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  • OFFOFF
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    edited December 2011
    I dont think anyone is going to do anything stupid that might get them killed. ;) I was my bff's best girl, just before his wedding his family took me aside and told me they'd be willing to bribe him to call off the welling. They wanted me to go to him and offer him a get away car, an all expense paid trip to Vegas for a few days and the use of a credit card. He turned them down. I was sure one of them would say something during the ceremony but everyone kept their mouth shut!
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  • the catthe cat
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    edited December 2011
    @ OFF - Dang...that's heavy!
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  • blue19violetblue19violet member
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    edited December 2011
    ishawna, i guess that fool really wants you back :). Off, dang... that's serious.
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  • braxtongirlbraxtongirl member
    Eighth Anniversary 100 Comments
    edited December 2011
    I have an ex that I have been having nightmares of him crashing the wedding and saying something. Everytime I see someone related to him, I make sure never to give the location, website or anything. Nobody in his fam!
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  • ishawnamcmishawnamcm
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    edited December 2011
    Blue: He is so kicking himself in the a$$ right now.  Cause he knows there's no chance on a cold winter's day in hail now!! I actually asked if we was quits for good in less than 2 years ago, before I decided to get serious with fi.  KARMA....Off: What's ur bff and wife's status now??
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  • ShaylaDaPimptressShaylaDaPimptress member
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    edited December 2011
    NOBODY.. they are all so ready for us to get married they're almost pushing us down the aisle themselves!
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  • Mrs.JKforeverMrs.JKforever
    100 Comments
    edited December 2011
    My husbands mother would definitely do some like that. That is why as soon as the pastor came to that part I put my hands on my hip and turned around and stared at her as*. You guys should see the video. Now she my best friend since I loaned her some money.
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  • bigshow2882bigshow2882
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    edited December 2011
    Probably my BF ex would have something to say about it. She was 33 and he was 23 when they was together! She is mad that her "money train" as she calls it, is gone. So she might try to do something.
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  • ladylumladylum member
    500 Comments Fourth Anniversary
    edited December 2011
    My whole FI's father's side would try to say something and then get beat down by my family. lol Basically his father has stated he is not coming to see his son marry a (insert a curse word and racial epithet here). My family loves him and welcome him with open arms. His father's side are racist which I will NEVER understand since it's OK to marry Asian but not black or Latino?!
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