I sent out my STD's this week. People have received them and are RSVPing online. To make sure that these guest are still coming I am going to send out RSVP's with meal options closer to the wedding (only to those that RSVPed online and those that did not will get the formal invitation). It will be cost effective because I will not have to order and make as many invitations (since most people throw them away). Ladies, what do you think?