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The worst wedding dream to date! Very long.

Oh my goodness! I just had the worst dream ever that seemed so real. It's like everything that could go wrong on my wedding day did. In this dream my photographers didn't show and I kept calling them and no one answered. My videoagrapher was very late and I didn't even give him our info form so he didn't even know who to shoot. He also gave one of my bridesmaids a camera that looked like a stick blender to use while he just sat there. Another bridesmaid and her mom had a truckload of pillows that they were trying to give away. Then another one of my bridesmaids got an attiude because I asked her to tell the DJ she got for us to not play obscene music. Also I kept seeing my FI all day before the ceremony and he and his guys were dressed and I wasn't, my hair was not done; I wanted a weave but it wasn't done and my hair was all on my head. And the kicker was that were were running extremely late. The service was supposed to start at 3:30 and I still wasn't ready at 7:00. My bridesmaids were trying to keep me calm but I was a mess crying all day. I woke up looking around to make sure it wasnt real. I am so relieved. I hope I don't have anymore dreams like that.

Re: The worst wedding dream to date! Very long.

  • ladylumladylum member
    500 Comments Fourth Anniversary
    edited December 2011
    I know I shouldn't laugh but I did! With all the planning you are doing, this WILL NOT happen. Just do a mantra to yourself. "The day will go as planned, the day will go as planned." Even if every detail is not perfect, as long as you can marry the man you will spend your life with, that's all that matters.
  • edited December 2011
    Anxiety dreams. I've been having them repeatedly for the past month. Everything I could imagine going wrong plus some runs through my dreams at night. Think positive thoughts and laugh it off in the morning.
  • edited December 2011
    After I realized it was a dream, I couldn't do nothing else but laugh. LOL
  • edited December 2011
    you got me cracking up. I have my share of nightmares too. Try not to worry too much during the day. Your wedding will be fabulous!
  • edited December 2011
    I am with the pp'rs, no offense it was funny. Poor baby. I had dreams like that before. Being EXTREMELY late. My dead grandmother in it fussing at me for waiting to do stuff last minute. No dress on, make up or hair not finished. Trying to find shoes etc. All kinds of stuff. It is just your self conscience speaking. You are thinking something may go wrong on your day and it is manifesting in your dreams. You posted yesterday about the dilemmas you had going on. though it is easier said than done, stop worrying about what you can't change. Focus on you and FI and what outcome you want from this. Ask God to keep his hands around your plans and your union as a whole. The devil will not win. I pray that you have the peace you need. It may be off subject but I pass along the prayers and good wishes that have been passed on to me. God Bless and HTH.
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