bridezilla... Obessed... or not

meccaj

hi ladies FI and i was talking about the wedding or rather having a heated discussion and he said and i quote i was obsessed about the wedding and being a bridezilla... he did later apologize for the comment but i could not but think about Carrie in sex in the City...  am i obessed with the wedding???...  am i a bridezilla???... in two words yes and no. i am on wedding planning mode 24/7 because if not me than who will be. FI didnt even want a wedding... if it was up to him we would have been married yesterday focusing on babymaking(& tells everybody this...it annoy the hell out of me). he tells me he doing this for me although secretly i think he is enjoying it just as me. as far a bridezilla i dont think so...not from what i seen on TV...lol... but FI  and i have now decided to have one day a week of NO wedding talk because lately anytime we have a discussion  about the wedding we are not seeing eye 2 eye. have any u ladies experience this?... whats ur advice??

mahoganieyes

You lucky because I have to deal with Groomzilla! He wants everybody in his family in this wedding and snaps when I suggest that he needs to shave his gm list down. Now he's all about rehearsal dinner, the wedding is not till 2011. This groomzilla had me calling places for pricing. I was so embarassed to say when I would need it. The venue/ceremony been booked for months, I just want to focus on that for now.

EliNick

I sometimes find myself talking about nothing but the wedding. There are other things going on in our lives so I decided that I would have 3 or 4 nights out of the week with absolutely NO wedding talk. It's refreshing being able to just take a breather and focus on other things.

romeys_bride

I really had to check myself sometimes... When Rome would make comments like that i would back off from wedding planning for a week or so, and go on a date with him, just talking about anything BUT the wedding... I didnt want the wedding to be bigger than us.

braxtongirl

Honestyly we have had those same discussions but it wasn't until we got closer like 90 days or under. For those that have close to 2 years, you have a lot of time left, so do things gradually and enjoy your guy. Those that are closer, you have every right to have the obsession. Its excitement.

cris10c

When we first got engaged I thought about the wedding a lot more so I would tell him, I need a five minute wedding discussion (or however long it would be) and discuss and then move on to something else. With so much other stuff going on, I am not in wedding mode like I was before but I still try to talk to people about other things too. That way it wouldn't seem like it was wedding all the time. Try to cut back by saving up as much as you can for one conversation so he won't feel like that is all you ever talk/think about.