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Poll: Question of the day

Ladysun083Ladysun083
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If your mate masturbates often can that be considered cheating? Or what if he masturbated in front of someone other than you and there was no contact with that person?
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  • the catthe cat
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    edited December 2011
    I don't think the act in itself is cheating. I DO think if he got somebody watching that it's HIGHLY inappropriate. he betta be getting paid for it!
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  • blue19violetblue19violet member
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    edited December 2011
    I should have known to expect something like this when I opened this post. lmao. No, if it is jus the act. HECK YEAH if this mofo' is doing it in front of someone else. What the heck kinda of freaky crap is that!?!?!? Negro WHAT????
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  • jonsmeshondrajonsmeshondra
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    edited December 2011
    I dont think the act is cheating either but OMG, if he does that in front of somebody else! Uhm...not cool at all! I think we might have to fight!!
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  • the catthe cat
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    edited December 2011
    LMAO @ Blue "Negro, WHAT?" I could see Dave like "What?" LMAO!!! Come on girl...there's no contact - they're only watching. i like a lil voyeurism in my life! J/K - not really ^-^
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  • blue19violetblue19violet member
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    edited December 2011
    haha cat. I'm all about spicing things up but that's just not cool. And, lmao, the amount of time I refer to this dude as 'negro' or 'colored' I'm surprised that he doesn't have a color complex.
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  • the catthe cat
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    edited December 2011
    I feel ya. I straight up tell P "ni... please". I think he likes it! LOL!
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  • Ladysun083Ladysun083
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    edited December 2011
    OMG im about to spit my coffee out!!!
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  • MRS.TJBMRS.TJB
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    edited December 2011
    If I caught him doing it I would be offended!  What am I here for?  What is the purpose?  I agree with Cat...if he was doing it in front of someone else that is HIGHLY inapporpiate!
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  • dst10spr97dst10spr97
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    edited December 2011
    Lady sun you be traumatizing me. LOL I had this happened to me by someone I was seriously involved years ago. He used to do it all the time. I didn't consider it cheating but I had a problem with it because we lived together, you had in house va jay jay. What's the problem dude, right? He had other underlying issues that I won't go into here. As for doing it in front of someone, like on webcams, etc. That's a no no, regardless if you have contact or not.
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  • blue19violetblue19violet member
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    edited December 2011
    LMBAO @ "you had in house va jay jay." This is my favorite quote of the day.
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  • the catthe cat
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    edited December 2011
    I first heard va jay jay from a gay man. It still makes me giggle every time i hear it. it's so cute. va jay jay! LOL!
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  • Ladysun083Ladysun083
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    edited December 2011
    LMAO..I dont have a problem if my mate does it in front of me or not in front of me, but I would be hella pissed if he was just sitting doing it in front of someone else...but like Cat said if he was getting paid and no contact...... :-)
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  • alfdallas21alfdallas21
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    edited December 2011
    doing the act by himself is ok and I wouldn't consider it cheating but like everyone else has said "what's up with that if you have in house access to some puddin'!"....I would think it's weird/strange/perverted if he's doing it in front of someone else...
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  • Spim7Spim7
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    edited December 2011
    In front of someone else contact or not I'd definitely not be ok with. On his own sure that's ok.
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  • brobin01brobin01
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    edited December 2011
    huh?! WTH? Why would he be masturbating in front of someone else? Hell yes that is inappropriate as hell. That is definitly part of cheating..
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  • julinejbjulinejb
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    edited December 2011
    Def inappropriate to do in front of someone else... I would call that a deal breaker to be honest. I would say "more power to ya" if he wanted to do it in front of me. I would be sitting there with the remote in my hand like "ok, that's nice dear"... I definitely wouldn't call it cheating either way...
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  • MrsJJohnson2BMrsJJohnson2B member
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    edited December 2011
    Im late but this too good to not comment. I dont consider it cheating! Do your thing, it your personal time! Enjoy yourself! Now doing in front of someone I got an issue with! Say if their mouth starts watering and they get all hot, now its an bigger issue. SO I do consider that as cheating! If he ws paid some good dough I would have to reconsider the way I fell! I feel you Kat !!
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  • jonsmeshondrajonsmeshondra
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    edited December 2011
    ok, that's nice dear"...   LOL@ Juline!
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  • the catthe cat
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    edited December 2011
    LOL @ MrsJJohnson - "if their mouth started watering". Me and my overactive imagination again...i got a visual.
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  • Ladysun083Ladysun083
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    edited December 2011
    OMG LMAO
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