Oh no he didn't

MrsJJohnson2B

As you ladies know FMIL said she may not come to the wedding! We have been getting closer going to the gym! SO she started to open up she said, " rememeber when I said I wasnt coming to the wedding I said yeah  "well Jay never  said to me yall were getting married! Im hurt by that"My mouth drop I thought he discussed it with his mom. NOt asking for an approval but just to tell her before she hears it Im not mad at him but I was suprised a little. I told him what she said to me! HE siad oh no NOw I must be a son! lol I just laughed he is hard to get to know she is menopausinig with an attitude

KimRhone

LMAO!! @ she is menopausing with an attitude. That is crazy though. He should have at least mentioned it to her

nubiannqween

Hm, you know, I don't think that is to un-common. My FI didn't tell his parents until after we got engaged. Thankfully there were no hurt feelings. :-)

italythomas1

My bf told me that when we do get engaged, he was going to tell his parents afterwards. It didn't offend me, because I don't want him to feel pressured, so I told him that's fine. He did tell me though, that he mentions our relationship to his brother and cousin, to see if I'm the right one for him. At least somebody knows when the time is right.