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Fed-up-VENT!!!

Ok..... So I've been having issues with my "best friend" and she has been avoiding my phone calls and text messages! Our final dress fitting for the bridesmaids is today and she texts me 6oclock in the AM and tells me she has two dilemmas? no that's two excuses and you couldn't think of which one was better to use! I think I'm just going to releave her of her duties! This is beginning to be too much stress from one person! My other bridesmaids have children and other obligations, grad school but they are always willing to help! what a way to start my Friday!

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    ciliajonesciliajones member
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    edited December 2011
    GIRL breathe.. Its ok- I had a similar situation. I am too waiting on my MOH to go for her dress fitting because the dresses were suppose to be ordered second week in October.. ha! I replaced her and another BM (which is a mutal friend) and Im moving on. Its all about you chica. Dont let the stress get to you- it takes the fun out of getting married.. Have a better friday.
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    edited December 2011
    I meant to say relieve! But just as you said! I'm moving on! At the end of the day as long as my FI, my pastor, and our mothers are present! I'm good!
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    edited December 2011
    i'm with Mrs,2010bride..move her to the left, and find you somebody else..because she not going to do right and this is your day, not hers, and she wouldnt't want anybody do that to her. But, me, i would text her back and be like " i got a dilemma too, and its not dealing with you", and keep it moving, stress-free.
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    edited December 2011
    Woooosa...Girl one monkey don't stop no show!!!! To da left to da left...LOL...It's ok to be frustated. Try talking to her and if that doesn't work give her a$$ the pink slip!!!
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    edited December 2011
    I hope you feel better.  But that is the exact same reason why I decided only to have my sister and my friend in my wedding.  I do not have time to babysit people!  
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    edited December 2011
    It will be alright. Dust her dirt off your shoulder and keep stepping pretty.
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    edited December 2011
    Thanks ladies!!! I just told her that she did not have to be in the wedding! Our fitting went well....i hate it came down to this but oh well!
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