i am in desperate need of encouragement. since becoming engaged my relationship seems to be going down hill. my fiance seems so withdrawal...it's hard to for me to be happy and excited when the person i'm marrying is so uninvolved and downright sad. when i try to get him to talk about it, he gives me one word answers and then changes the subject. we start premarital counseling next week but i'm really wondering if this is a growing pain or a sign that maybe we should not be getting married in a few months. what do you all think?