Okay, so heres my drama, which I knew would happen. I am in the military. My BFF is back home, and I love her to absolute death, she is the closest thing to a sister I have. BUT she is extremely jealous of some of my local and military gal pals. Especially one.
This one friend helped me through my divorce, gave me and my children a place to live (we were stationed together), watched my children so I could fulfill my military requirements without having to send them all the way to grandmas. She just was all around there for me. And I was there for her through her pregnancy while her husband was deployed, attended her c-section and cut the cord, then helped her move 6 states over with a pre-scooler and a newborn all before he got home.
Now, my sister friend has voiced (repeatedly & loudly) that my friend can come to the wedding, but is not in the bridal party. UMMMM... EXCUSE ME. I was her MOH, she will be my MOH, but I had no say over the rest of her BP and she does not over mine. I never even said anything about the last minute decision that I share the MOH title (but funny enough, not the duties) with a cousin of hers. Because it was her wedding. Her show. I got it.
Well, my military friend is ALREADY in the BP. She will be a BM. I'm not sure what there is that my sister doesn't understand, or how I can explain it any more clearly. As MOH, she is effectively dismissing my BM, and refuses to contact or even acknowledge the girl.
HELP! I still have 18 months to go!!!
