African American Weddings

I'm Back To Tell,,,,,

Ya'll what happened.

Getting Ready:
I woke up at 6am tired as hell.  My MOH arrived at my house at 8:30 to finish my hair and bump my mom's hair. My MUA arrived at 9 but I was getting my hair done. I didn't get done with my hair until 9:30.  The photographers arrived at 9:30am and begin snapping pictures.  After my hair was done, I immediatley started my makeup. So 10am rolled around and the transportation arrived but I wasn't ready. I wasn't ready until 10:50 so I was going to be about 5mins late for the wedding.  Wel, I was actually an half an hour late because my little sister took my house keys and I wasn't able to close the door. So I had to wait until she and my mom come back to the house to return my keys.

The Ceremony:
The ceremony started at about 11:30. I told myself that I wasn't going to cry but as soon as I heard the violin duo I begin to cry. My husband looked so handsome in his ivory suit. The decor was beautifiul, my decorator did an excellent job. The ceremony lasted about 25mins and immediately begin taking pictures.

The Reception:
Because I was late, I was not able to see the decor for the reception.  A lot of people said that it was beautiful. I loved my cake it was so beautiful. The MC was cool he played a lot of good music. Alot of people were not dancing I guess because it was dayligtht. Overall, It was a beautifull wedding.

Hot Ghettoness:
Everything was fine until my cousin was drunk and showed up drunk to the wedding. I was pissed! it was a nice cassy wedding and her a** was acting a fool, all clingy on me. a couple of times I pushed her away from me.  she was trying to be in all the pictures. And during the reception she even gave my friend from college a lap dance! My mom was livid!.

Next up on hot ghettoness, my husband's classless a** aunties. The first thing she said to me after the ceremony was that she should throw some chocolate cake on my dress all loud and ghetto. Excuse me? How about I throw my bouquet in your face! I told my husband to keep her away from me. 

I during dinner, I heard that his family was saying things like "we ghetto we ain't gonna have no class today!" I was so embarrassed my boss was there, I had co-workers there.  The truth is I thought my family was going to act out but they didn't.

I found out that my uncle's wife was hatin on everything. she didn't eat talking about the food was not good. I spoke to some people and they were like the food was excellent. She was hatin so bad maybe because her daughter's wedding wasn't as nice as mine.

Back to my husband's ghetto family. So th cousin decided that she wanted threatened me about if I mistreat her cousin.  I was thinkin gurl if only u knew that u should be afraid of me and I told him that.

So aunty #2, decided that she wanted to grill me and be nosey.  I was pissed asking if I was pregnant and she claimed that she didn't remember me. I told my husband that I felt like that was inapropriate and it was none of her business.

I also found out that aunty #2, asked my mom about about the marriage license and she didn't see anyone sign it. My mom was like idon't know. And so the aunty had my uncle call the pastor to ask about it WTF??? My Husband was livid! It's none you concern of what we did. we didn't have time to get the license so we are going to get it at a later date.

So my husband invited his relatives after the reception to come to my house. Big Mistake! People were drinking some haterade because it was extra thick that day. I was so upset. I had to leave and take my mom home because her car broke down at the reception. Well sge told me how aunty #1 had made a rude commento her "you need to slow the f**ck down that's why your f**cking car don't waork now!" After that I made a call to my husband and told him to kick everyone out my house bow! I told him about everything that happened and he got on the phone and quickly cussed aunty #1 and #2 out!! I told him that their trashy classless a** will never step foot in my house again! He agreed and apologized to my mom. I got a text message from his niece apoogizing and explaining as to why she does not deal with them and how upset she was as well.

Re: I'm Back To Tell,,,,,

  • prncszprncsz member
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    edited December 2011
    Oh wow!!!! I'm so sorry to hear about those ghetto a** family members!! I hate that they had to do every thing possible to ruin your day. I commend you for continuing on and then setting them straight once it was over. Sad people can't just simply be happy for you instead of trying to throw salt. Well you are married now that's all that matters!
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  • edited December 2011
    Girl! I am so afraid that its going to be my side thats the Ghetto a**es!! Its always someone that thives to ruin you day! I'm glad everything else went well!!! Eff the haters girl!!!
    P.S. Where are the pictures!!!??
  • edited December 2011
    You good, because I would've called the police to come and get the drunks out! Some people come for the free meal and drinks.......Yell Sorry about these a-holes but glad they did not take away the real meaning of that day. Congratulations and where are the pics?!


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  • edited December 2011
    I will definitely send pics.
  • hunee=pyehunee=pye member
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    edited December 2011
    Gurrrrrllllll whoa.. First sorry you had to deal with the drama. Im glad other than that you enjoyed your day thats all that matters.
  • edited December 2011
    wow sorry about that.  The thing I hate the MOST is that your boss and co workers were there.  WTH? That is sooooooo embarrassing.  Luckily my husband's family is very classy (but rude).  That is the only concern I have.  I do not want them being so rude that my guests notice their attitudes.  My family is very ghetto, but My mom and dad are not, and because all my family respects my parents, I know that they will not act out.  They may be country and little loud, but they will not be ghetto with our family preacher and my dad there.  THANK GOD. Anyway, enjoy married life, do not let them bring you down lady.
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    Girrrlll....  I don't even know what to say!  I'm sorry you had to experience that.  I hope you and your hubby were still able to enjoy your day...

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  • edited December 2011
    Whoa Nelly!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  Girl I am too threw with your in-laws!  I am truly sorry to hear that they TRIED to ruin your day.  However, from what you've stated your ceremony turned out the way you envisioned it and at the end of the day you married your special man!!!  CONGRATS TO YOU TWO!!!
  • edited December 2011
    WOWZERSSSSSSSSSSSS

    I think all of us have "those" family members that act a fool no matter what you do to control it. I am so glad you maintained your sanity though b/c I think I might have gone bridezillas on those aunties of your DH.

    Keep on pressing bc now your married and there is nothing they can do about that

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  • edited December 2011
    OMG. Lawd please help me stay calm if that were to happen to me, but God forbid. I have haters and jealous ppl in my family, and my FI has haters,jealous ones, and ghettos in his family. Oops I almost forgot that my dad's side of the family is ghetto as hell. So I'm gonna wait for some "you-know-what" to pop off, so I can call people o-u-t. That story sounds like something that I would unfortunately experience, I just hope I don't. I already have my FMIL wearing ivory, so I'm really expecting to have to regulate on 10-10-10.
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