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Am I the only person not wearing pearls or incorporating them into the wedding???

I've been looking around on the galleries at wedding pics, and have been to two weddings this year where the brides are all wearing pearl chokers and bracelets and are even including them in their bouquets and florals. I have NEVER been the pearls type of girl, they've just always seemed so matronly and understated, but seeing them on the brides lately they really look nice. I still prefer the bling factor though. Am I alone in this? Am I the only bride not wearing pearls???
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  • edited December 2011
    Nope you are not alone.  I do not plan on using pearls in my wedding.  They are classy pieces, but I am also going for bling!!
  • edited December 2011
    I'm not a pearls girl either. Never have been. I,personally, find them boring. JMO. But i would just do whatever works for you as a person. 
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  • edited December 2011
    I am not wearing pearls. I prefer bling.
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  • edited December 2011
    Nope, no pearls here and being in the south I get plenty gasps and side eye lol
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  • edited December 2011
    I like pearl studs, but I am not a big pearl type of person, and will not be wearing a pearl necklace, although I have seen some beautiful rhinestone and pearl combinations.
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  • w0261411w0261411 member
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    edited December 2011

    I'm the only person in my family who doesnt wear pearl earrings! I just cant do it. lol My 19 year old cousin wore them at her wedding this past July and although they looked classic and trendy, I truly feel they aged her. Maybe it's just me. I'm sticking with bling...lets just hope I dont go overboard!!!

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  • hatroopeshatroopes member
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    edited December 2011
    No pearls for me. I love pearls and I do own some, but I prefer bling on my wedding day plus I feel bling complements my dress better than pearls.
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  • island07b2bisland07b2b member
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    edited December 2011
    No pearls either for me.  I've never been a big fan of them at all although they look great on some people.



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  • empeguesempegues member
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    edited December 2011
    No pearls here either. 
  • wallacjewallacje member
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    edited December 2011
    I don't even own a pair of pearls, they are not my thing. BLING ALL THE WAY!!!!
  • edited December 2011
    I wear pearls on the regular, but not on me wedding day.  I have a custom made crystal set that compliments the crystals on my dress.  
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  • M1ssJM1ssJ member
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    edited December 2011
    I am only using pearls because they are my something old and were my grandmother's (who passed away) they'll be wrapped around my bouquet
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  • edited December 2011
    I'm using a mix of pearls and bling!

    I found a website that has the perfect mixture of both (with enough bling to please)!

    check out www.annabellagio.com

    I Love my jewelry.. it goes so well with the classic throw back feel of my wedding... that and I don't usually use pearls, so this will be new for me!
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  • EsquireJLEsquireJL member
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    edited December 2011
    I looooooove pearls. Love them! I wear them everday. Pearl earrings, necklace, before I was engaged I wore a pearl ring and I even have pearls on my glasses lol. For the wedding I am doing a mix of diamonds and pearls. I don't think they look matronly. I think they are classy and elegant. My invites even have pearls. LOL! I'm a bit pearl obsessed.
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  • edited December 2011
    I do wear pearl but for my wedding it is all about the bling!
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  • edited December 2011
    I did not wear pearl jewelry but my dress had pearls in the design of it and my shoes had pearls.  Here are my shoes



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  • edited December 2011
    I don't plan on wearing pearls for my wedding.
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  • MsAmeera25MsAmeera25 member
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    edited December 2011
    I LOVE pearls, they are tasteful, timeless, and alluring. I wear pearls on a regular basis whether its my earrings or necklace or both.....I plan on wearing them on the wedding day....besides you know what they say "the pearl is the queen of gems and the gem of queens"

     

  • w0261411w0261411 member
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    edited December 2011
    I agree, they do look nice on some people. It's just what  each person prefers for her big day. For me its BLING!!! lol. @Flasweetheart, those are very pretty!! :0)
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/cultural-wedding-boards_african-american-weddings_am-only-person-not-wearing-pearls-incorporating-wedding?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Cultural Wedding BoardsForum:400Discussion:44a7bb04-3a83-4e0d-900d-1c9774a69b2dPost:bdae6535-d3f6-48df-ba69-b22dfd865647">Re: Am I the only person not wearing pearls or incorporating them into the wedding???</a>:
    [QUOTE]I'm using a mix of pearls and bling! I found a website that has the perfect mixture of both (with enough bling to please)! <strong>check out <a href="http://www.annabellagio.com" rel='nofollow'>www.annabellagio.com</a> I</strong> Love my jewelry.. it goes so well with the classic throw back feel of my wedding... that and I don't usually use pearls, so this will be new for me!
    Posted by MrsJenrette[/QUOTE]

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  • edited December 2011
    No I also didnt use pearl wasn't for me
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  • edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/cultural-wedding-boards_african-american-weddings_am-only-person-not-wearing-pearls-incorporating-wedding?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Cultural Wedding BoardsForum:400Discussion:44a7bb04-3a83-4e0d-900d-1c9774a69b2dPost:b4a18354-b336-489b-bf81-2fb91b1d6b22">Re: Am I the only person not wearing pearls or incorporating them into the wedding???</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Am I the only person not wearing pearls or incorporating them into the wedding??? : I love you for this. L-O-V-E!
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    Awww.... M1ssJ you are very welcome!<img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-smile.gif" border="0" alt="Smile" title="Smile" />
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