Girl, hubby and I got married in January {no secret}, but we were planning for May. So, I stil wanted my "big" wedding. So, I just made sure that on the invitations, it read "vow renewal" or whatever. Other ppl on TK take life too seriously! If ppl KNOW that you're married already, it's really not deception. It would be deception if yall hid it. But I say go for it. Just be open about the fact that it is a vow renewal. There's nothing fake about it, you're just getting remarried! lol