Before I start venting about the guest list, I would like to first take this opportunity to vent about the knot's slow azz site. It takes for-ever to load this board on the site. It's probably because of this crazy, annoying video. UGH!
Anyways, back to the topic at hand...the guest list. This is the biggest stressor of my life right now (the wedding planning part of my life, that is). I cannot believe that I know this many freakin' people. And I realize that it's not that I know so many people, it's my parents, my grandma, FI parents, FI grandparents. They know a ton of people. When I look back at my list, I've only invted like 12 of my friends out of almost 100 people! And my grandma and mom's whole theory is, most of these people won't show up, you just have to invite them so that you don't hurt their feelings. And I don't want to hurt any1's feelings, but I also don't want to not invite people that I really want to be there so that I can invite people that may or may not show up! My venue is only large enough to really hold 100 people. I have 96 people on my list so far....and that's just my list. I think my FI may want to invite some people too. I'm just really stressing out. And I'm trying to do the whole A list and B list thing, but the people that I'm inviting are all so connected. If I invite this person and put them on the A list and put their relative on the B list, those people will know they are on the B list because they will get their invite later. So, I can't do that. All in all, I'm looking at 200 people that I will invite for a venue that can only comfortably hold 100 people indoors (there is a big front lawn that I can use). My dad and grandma say I should just go "balls to the walls" and invite 200 people, because they won't show up anyways. I just don't know. What do you ladies think (sorry so long)?