Thanks to Facebook people sure love to keep the drama going. My cousin announced on FB this past weekend that he was engaged. He just graduated from hs and will be 18 in the fall. Wth? All hell broke loose when my mom saw his FB status. She sent him a message aswell his father, my cousin, asking about this crap. This young man wa scheduled to attend college oot this Fall and my aunt, his grandmother is working(semi retired) so her grandson could attend college. That ungrateful little (you fill it in).
Well he met this girl some months back. She's 18, currently preggo not his and he wants to marry her. Where's her baby's daddy at? Come to find out the girl did not graduate because she was kicked out of school. My cousin moved out his maternal grandmother's house to now live with this girl and her momma. Her mom is okay and just love my cousin because he helps out. He works at McDonalds! That buys alot of burgers but not pampers. See, I blame his daddy and momma because this boy have been raised in 3 different households as a young kid. My aunt, his paternal grandmother, maternal grandmother and maternal aunt took him in.
So his dad went off on FB telling him he need to focus on college and leave this girl alone. Why did this little kid, tell his daddy FU?! My mom sent him a note telling him, no matter what you still respect your parents. My cousin was furious and said he was no longer his son! Well, I've been sending him messages for the past few days as his concerned older cousin. I was not hollering or trying to belittle him but really trying to reason with him. Well today, he sent me a message about he's grown(remember only 17) and we need to support him and back him up and he can do whatever he please. Oh no........you don't talk to me like that! I was genuinely concerned about this kid. I told him shame on you, and I have nothing else to say. I kindly removed him from my fb list and sent his daddy a message. I told my aunt that her grandson will not be invited to my wedding next September. I was actually being nice since my wedding is Adult Only and he would be 18 at that time. I really want only 21 and up due to the alcohol factor. I will not be inviting 2 extra kids(him and his supposedly to be wife) to my wedding. This kid need to get a reality check soon!!!