So Fi and I went out to lunch this past weekend to discuss some wedding details and to be honest, he started being a tad bit more involved then I preferred for him to be. So I reluctantly agreed to some of his suggestions and I left it alone. This morning he called me at work and said he had to talk to be about something. So I was thinking OMG, what now? He said I just wanted to let you know that I'm going to let you plan our wedding and I just want to be able to show up. He said he prayed about it last night and concluded that decided that he didn't care about any of these minor details that we were talking about. He said he understood that the wedding is more about the bride and if I want it, HE wants it. He told me whatever I want him to wear, he will, or whatever I want him to do, he will. Even though, I don't plan on changing any of the things we agreed upon during our talk at lunch, it really did make me feel happy that he said what he said.
So just to test it out, I asked a few questions related to the wedding and now his response to everything is, "I don't know, what do you think". Once I say what I think, he says "then that's what I think too." What a mess he is