One of my close friends' BF. She is one of my BMs and was my BFF all through high school and undergrad and we were really close and lived together, inseparable, the whole 9. Well in undergrad she started dating this guy that was just no good for her, like had her paying for his child's clothes and child support (w/her student loans!!!) , paying his bills, etc. I tried to like him but just when I made the effort he popped up with a child conceived while he and my friend were together. She stayed with him and even moved him in and takes care of the kids to boot, also 7.5 years later he's still stalling on proposing even though she's doing all that. He told her she didn't really want to be married yet. WHat?!! I told her I support her as my friend but I dont speak to him AT ALL.
The dilemma, she is one of my BMs and I am inviting her parents and her brother and his wife . I'm only extending plus ones to my friends who are married or engaged .I don't plan to invite him because I really can't stand him! Am I wrong for that? ( I kinda feel like I am ) He is also our fraternity brother and all of our brothers have asked if Im inviting him because everyone talks about my friend and the situation and knows that I dont care for him. What would you do?