Trying to be conscious of my spending during my vow renewal however things seem to becoming complicated. I've done some research on my own trying to reduce the costs and its not working for ie, the resort would supply a cake that feeds 10 people which is not enough I can purchase a cake from a local bakery at $6 p/p per slice so for about 20 people its $120.00 plus delivery for $90.00 and then flowers are given (roses) a bouquet and a boutonnier for my husband however I want calli lillies and that's $180.00 and the boutonnier is $20.00 or I could let the resort order for the same price and pay for delivery. I just never knew things could get so overwhelming, however i must admit that I work good under pressure but this is a different kind of pressure SMH. Please help with your advice