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I knew my mind was getting the best of me...

I went to the bridal store today where I bought my dress from and accused them of getting me a used dress.  Dont know why but I started calculating time frames and figured that there's no way my dress could have arrived as quickly as it did.  Told them about some flaws I saw and stuff and what didnt seem right.

She reassured me that it was new. Felt really bad afterward. I hope I didnt leave a bad impression on them as I have grown to really enjoy the staff there.

I guess this wedding is starting to get to me.  I cant wait for my calmer to come (FI).  He really knows how to take the stress away.
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Re: I knew my mind was getting the best of me...

  • edited December 2011
    Awwww *hugs* it will be okay! you neeed to take a week off and just relax.
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  • hotrocker2011hotrocker2011 member
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    edited December 2011
    Take a deep breath its ok just explain that every thing piled up and you had a moment....it happens somtimes....even though they might not like it I'm sure that not the first time that happen to them I don't think they will hold it aginst you but they will be more careful around you now....
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  • sadou02sadou02 member
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    edited December 2011
    Yeah... Suprisingly I dont really need a break because besides the invites that I completed last week, I havent really been concentrating on wedding stuff. I just let my thoughts run far away.  I gave her a hug and apologized while speaking with her. She understood and explained everything to me.  It was a calm conversation.  Im happy I remained peaceful.  Just wish I hadnt apporoached them with it at all.  But she was very nice about it which made me more at ease.
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  • sadou02sadou02 member
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    edited December 2011
    Thanks for the hugs cherryblossom and the advice hotrocker.
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  • edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/cultural-wedding-boards_african-american-weddings_knew-mind-getting-of?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Cultural Wedding BoardsForum:400Discussion:69ccc886-43ee-4dfb-8326-949102b313a5Post:162063d1-ec45-45a1-aa39-ea96c6481e2d">Re: I knew my mind was getting the best of me...</a>:
    [QUOTE]Thanks for the hugs cherryblossom and the advice hotrocker.
    Posted by sadou02[/QUOTE]

    That"s what were here for. You vent as much as you need to.
  • hotrocker2011hotrocker2011 member
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    edited December 2011
    No prob....like cherry said that's what were here for....I no when I get as close as you are its gona be crazy....
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