Maybe sad is a bad word choice. I rebudgeted the wedding today. I cut it from 10k to a little over 7k. There are things we would have liked to do like ride in a limo or stayed in the honeymoon suite two nights instead of one. However, I kept basics "needs" and cut "really wants" in half. Other "wants" just had to go. But at least I know we can pay for it June 2013 and not go into debt. Thats whats most important. Just venting, I suppose.