LOL!! That's why we have so many of the same thoughts when it comes to our wedding celebration!! I'm already married too!! We got married last year in a private ceremony and only a handful of private people know. So, we are getting "married" on the same day this year and we are going to surprise every one and tell them. after getting married- you do have the whole- I'm not spending all this money for one day- mentality. As well as other things